10 interesting questions you need to ask on your first wedding nightAleena Apr 12 2018 at 7:24 AM
No matter how rocking your sex life is, communication between a couple is an extremely important part of their relationship. It gets even more important if you are tied in a wedding bond and are starting a new life together. Here are some engaging first night talking cues to get you going. It will help you know your partner much better and break the ice between you two.
1.What was your favorite part/moment about our wedding?
You both just went through a multiple days long wedding affair where you could not think straight about anything. Here’s your chance to think back on those moments and even get to know your partner’s thought on those moments. It will be fun to know if they perceived a particular issue in a completely different way than you did. Who knows their favorite moment was when you walked down the aisle, or when you both said “I do”, or maybe when you were posing almost childishly their heart whispered “I can’t believe this person is mine for life”.
2. What will your perfect day be like?
This one is not only has a getting-to-know-you benefit but also has a secret internal benefit for you. Other than knowing their likes and dislikes, you may also get ideas for planning a surprise for them. You will come to know where to take them, what pet to bring along or what activities to plan out. Total win-win eh?
3. In your everyday routine, what is that one thing you hate doing but you have to do anyhow?
For girls, it may be something like untangling their hair and for guys it might be ironing their clothes. Through this you will share a great chuckle at their weird choice of chore. Also, keep that chore in mind which would later transform as a super sweet moment for you both. Maybe days or months later, on one random day you can do that chore for them. They’ll be pleasantly surprised that you remembered that little thing. Quick hack to enhance the love between you both.
4.When did you know you wanted to marry me?
Another fond memory alert! The answer could be super sweet memories like “When I first laid my eyes on you” or maybe “When you said this…..or that”. Possibilities are personalized according to your love story. You both will blush and create a beautiful moment right there.
5. What is that one dream you have for yourself? Just something “You” wanna do and not something your career demands.
Again it could be anything from a personal goal to a professional skill. You can get inspired, help them, support them achieve it maybe in later years. This question shows how much you care for your partner and will make them feel loved and valued as a person. Their dreams will feel honored if their brand new life partner wants to know these things.
6. What is your most favorite thing about yourself?
Another bonding question that makes you aware of their best qualities. If not anything else, it will make you fall in love with them a little more than before. And then you can tell yours.
7. Tell me 5 random things about yourself
This doesn’t have to be their likes and dislikes. Some really random things like they think pizza is overrated, or How I met your mother is better than Friends. You know things like that.
8. Who is your best friend and why?
In case you know who their friends are already, here’s the twist. Ask them about the crazy times they had in canteen together or tough times their bestie had supported them. Maybe it’s not one person, maybe it’s a whole squad. You will only know when this conversation comes up. Be prepared for a roller coaster of emotions spiraling out.
9. What one thing you would like to change from here onward?
Since you are married now, they might be looking forward to coming home early every day or changing some bad habit of theirs. You will get a clear outlook on their expectations in this marriage and their life after marriage.
10. Where do you see us in the next 5 years?
If you have had questions about your partner’s views on kids, here’s the perfect chance to get to know them. Even if kids are not on your minds, they can answer things like they wanna see you be the head of your firm in 5 to 10 years. And that’s enough to be motivating and assuring you of your partner.
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