Kinky Sex Ideas: Introduce Fun Into Your Bedroom

Natasha May 26 2014 at 2:37 AM
  • Role Play

    At the top of everyone's list of kinks is role play. Role play is a fun, safe and sexy way to indulge one's kinks without crossing any lines. Whether it is his desire to get with the exotic French maid, or her Superman fantasy, role play is most definitely your ticket out of boring sex. As with light bondage, the basics apply, remember to discuss the subject of your roleplay fantasy with your partner, draw up some ground rules and make your night the steamiest possible, this side of the Amazon rainforest.
  • Food and sex

    Both food and sex are highly sensory experiences and combining the two is a surefire recipe for blockbuster lovemaking. A simple rule of thumb here is to remember that while you combine the two experiences, you need to remember that it is a sex play or game, and not a lunch or dinner buffet. Another thing to remember would be to figure out the kind of food you could use to liven things in the bedroom. While chocolate and whipped cream are perennial favorites, preserved meats and salted snacks like wafers and Cheetos are best left for the football game!
  • Sexting

    Sexting is definitely something up everyone's alley. Imagine his/her state when he/she is at work or better still, at a meeting and receives a sext from you. For the uninitiated that means a sexy WhatsApp message with an equally sexy photo of you. Kinky and sexy, and it definitely sets the tone for a rather passionate evening or night post work!
  • Role reversal

    An off shoot of role play, role reversal basically means flipping the ascribed sex roles of the man and woman. Now in order to keep this within the realm of kinky, maybe you ought to restrict this to what you wear. Posing for your woman in a lace jockstrap or a shiny bikini brief doesn't really compromise your masculinity. On the other hand, making love to your man, in a sexy power suit, does not make you feel completely masculine! Remember to mix and match these role reversals without objectifying each other and you will be just fine!

The minute the word ‘kinky’ comes up, most of us ‘normal’ people cringe. Yes, the images of leather bondage equipment, gimp masks, group sex and orgies are sufficient to induce nausea in the best of us. But then again, kinky sex ideas could be the only thing that can save one from the boredom that can beset any and eventually all sexual relations. The question isn’t about whether having kinky sex is ‘good’ or ‘bad’, but rather how being kinky can introduce a level of levity and fun into one’s bedroom? Suffice to say that kinky sex is good, if done right. In fact knowingly or otherwise, all of us ‘normal’ people are inherently kinky. It is merely a choice we make to conceal our kinks from others, for fear of being judged. So then here’s a quick guide on how to be kinky, without being downright weird, or in layman speak, without raising alarm bells, or being judged or labeled a deviant…

 

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